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	<description>Parenting, privilege, and rethinking the norm</description>
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		<title>By: Brenna</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8250</link>
		<dc:creator>Brenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 22:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We were just talking about this very thing at my Tai Chi class the other day... why is it that we can always conjure something negative, something we&#039;d like to change, about ourselves, but it can be hard to proudly say something we are good at, something we love about ourselves?

I am good at coming up with fun, creative ideas... Now I am going to tell my person, although, yes, you do inspire me as well!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We were just talking about this very thing at my Tai Chi class the other day&#8230; why is it that we can always conjure something negative, something we&#8217;d like to change, about ourselves, but it can be hard to proudly say something we are good at, something we love about ourselves?</p>
<p>I am good at coming up with fun, creative ideas&#8230; Now I am going to tell my person, although, yes, you do inspire me as well!</p>
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		<title>By: NavelgazingBajan</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8234</link>
		<dc:creator>NavelgazingBajan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 14:50:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1. I have a knack for words. I am good at editing and proofreading other people&#039;s writings. I am kind, compassionate and empathetic. And, despite what I tell myself, I am very patient.

2. I would like to thank Brooke for introducing me to the world of natural birthing choices and natural parenting choices. She did so in such a gentle way that I felt inspired to learn more. I was blessed to spend time with her during her first pregnancy and she generously shared her birthing choices with me. Because of her, I read Ina May&#039;s Guide to Chilbirth and my whole perspective shifted after that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. I have a knack for words. I am good at editing and proofreading other people&#8217;s writings. I am kind, compassionate and empathetic. And, despite what I tell myself, I am very patient.</p>
<p>2. I would like to thank Brooke for introducing me to the world of natural birthing choices and natural parenting choices. She did so in such a gentle way that I felt inspired to learn more. I was blessed to spend time with her during her first pregnancy and she generously shared her birthing choices with me. Because of her, I read Ina May&#8217;s Guide to Chilbirth and my whole perspective shifted after that.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah @ OneStarryNight</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8228</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah @ OneStarryNight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 12:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a fantastic post! So true, rarely do I open up for fear of being attacked verbally/emotionally. It&#039;s hard!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a fantastic post! So true, rarely do I open up for fear of being attacked verbally/emotionally. It&#8217;s hard!</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8209</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 04:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I? Am awesome at math. Numbers are my thing, yo.

And I know I&#039;m not supposed to tell you how you&#039;ve inspired me, but you have. So I&#039;m going to ignore that little instruction. So thank you, for the inspiration. And for giving me a forum to brag about my math skills.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I? Am awesome at math. Numbers are my thing, yo.</p>
<p>And I know I&#8217;m not supposed to tell you how you&#8217;ve inspired me, but you have. So I&#8217;m going to ignore that little instruction. So thank you, for the inspiration. And for giving me a forum to brag about my math skills.</p>
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		<title>By: Sheri</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8205</link>
		<dc:creator>Sheri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 03:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1-I&#039;m great at encouraging my daughter and my students to take risks, try new things and even just be silly sometimes for the fun and learning that comes with playing.

2-I&#039;ll tell my friend Mandi how she inspires me with regards to my teaching and interactions with my students based on her wonderful example.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1-I&#8217;m great at encouraging my daughter and my students to take risks, try new things and even just be silly sometimes for the fun and learning that comes with playing.</p>
<p>2-I&#8217;ll tell my friend Mandi how she inspires me with regards to my teaching and interactions with my students based on her wonderful example.</p>
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		<title>By: jenn</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8186</link>
		<dc:creator>jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 22:48:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1. I&#039;m a damn good mother. Not in spite of the fact that I&#039;m an unconventional one, but because I&#039;m an unconventional one and embrace my quirks.

(Ow, that was hard.)

2. Aww, crap, you mean we can&#039;t list you? I&#039;ll have to think about that one ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. I&#8217;m a damn good mother. Not in spite of the fact that I&#8217;m an unconventional one, but because I&#8217;m an unconventional one and embrace my quirks.</p>
<p>(Ow, that was hard.)</p>
<p>2. Aww, crap, you mean we can&#8217;t list you? I&#8217;ll have to think about that one &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8173</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 20:51:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually said something to the effect of &quot;Eek, this is weird tooting my own horn&quot; in my post for this carnival.  Yeah, it felt odd simply because I never do it, not because it isn&#039;t true.  There&#039;s a balance to strike between conceit and modesty, I think it&#039;s humility. 

Homework:
1. I am ridiculously intuitive.
2. Inspiration changes for me all the time, but right now, it&#039;s my sister who had to go back to work with a three-month old because she&#039;s the major breadwinner.  She&#039;s a die hard breastfeeder, bed-sharer, and even juggles major travel to bring her baby (and or husband) with her because she&#039;s not ready to be apart from her 5-month old.  She&#039;s soooo new at this parenting gig and she&#039;s stepping up to the plate like an old pro.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually said something to the effect of &#8220;Eek, this is weird tooting my own horn&#8221; in my post for this carnival.  Yeah, it felt odd simply because I never do it, not because it isn&#8217;t true.  There&#8217;s a balance to strike between conceit and modesty, I think it&#8217;s humility. </p>
<p>Homework:<br />
1. I am ridiculously intuitive.<br />
2. Inspiration changes for me all the time, but right now, it&#8217;s my sister who had to go back to work with a three-month old because she&#8217;s the major breadwinner.  She&#8217;s a die hard breastfeeder, bed-sharer, and even juggles major travel to bring her baby (and or husband) with her because she&#8217;s not ready to be apart from her 5-month old.  She&#8217;s soooo new at this parenting gig and she&#8217;s stepping up to the plate like an old pro.</p>
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		<title>By: Annie @ PhD in Parenting</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8169</link>
		<dc:creator>Annie @ PhD in Parenting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 20:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Before my homework, I will say that at 6&#039;2&quot; it was very difficult constantly trying to make myself appear small. It is much easier to stand proud and tall of who I am and what I&#039;ve accomplished. :)

1) If I&#039;m upset about or inspired by something, I can type up a good rant in no time at all. People often ask me if blogging is my full time job. It isn&#039;t. It is something I do after the kids are in bed. 

2) In parenting, I&#039;ve been very inspired (helped, soothed, given hope) lately by the writing of Marion Badenoch Rose of Parenting with Presence: http://www.parentingwithpresence.net/. I am very lucky to have her as a friend and fan of my blog on facebook and appreciate her popping in with bits of wisdom to get me through the tough times.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Before my homework, I will say that at 6&#8217;2&#8243; it was very difficult constantly trying to make myself appear small. It is much easier to stand proud and tall of who I am and what I&#8217;ve accomplished. :)</p>
<p>1) If I&#8217;m upset about or inspired by something, I can type up a good rant in no time at all. People often ask me if blogging is my full time job. It isn&#8217;t. It is something I do after the kids are in bed. </p>
<p>2) In parenting, I&#8217;ve been very inspired (helped, soothed, given hope) lately by the writing of Marion Badenoch Rose of Parenting with Presence: <a href="http://www.parentingwithpresence.net/" rel="nofollow">http://www.parentingwithpresence.net/</a>. I am very lucky to have her as a friend and fan of my blog on facebook and appreciate her popping in with bits of wisdom to get me through the tough times.</p>
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		<title>By: Phoenix_Rising</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8167</link>
		<dc:creator>Phoenix_Rising</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 20:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t even explain how much I like this topic. Too many times and too many years full of kyriarchy pushing people down and disparaging efforts and even the very *being* makes for a low self-esteem. Reading things like this help to make it even more clear to me that I *am* worth more, that things *can* be better, and that it *is* worth working to make life better. 

You said that you wished you could come up with one beautiful, specific story in which you&#039;d inspired someone. . .I&#039;ll give you one.  http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/09/a-letter-to-a-loved-one/

And the homework piece:
1) I am learning how to become me. There is no qualifier here. This is all about the journey for me. I am walking on this journey and I am proud to be where I am in this journey, as hard as it is.
2) My mom has been my inspiration throughout much of my life, and many times I&#039;ve looked back and have been able to see how awesome she truly is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t even explain how much I like this topic. Too many times and too many years full of kyriarchy pushing people down and disparaging efforts and even the very *being* makes for a low self-esteem. Reading things like this help to make it even more clear to me that I *am* worth more, that things *can* be better, and that it *is* worth working to make life better. </p>
<p>You said that you wished you could come up with one beautiful, specific story in which you&#8217;d inspired someone. . .I&#8217;ll give you one.  <a href="http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/09/a-letter-to-a-loved-one/" rel="nofollow">http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/09/a-letter-to-a-loved-one/</a></p>
<p>And the homework piece:<br />
1) I am learning how to become me. There is no qualifier here. This is all about the journey for me. I am walking on this journey and I am proud to be where I am in this journey, as hard as it is.<br />
2) My mom has been my inspiration throughout much of my life, and many times I&#8217;ve looked back and have been able to see how awesome she truly is.</p>
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		<title>By: Maman A Droit</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2010/05/say-something-good/#comment-8161</link>
		<dc:creator>Maman A Droit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 16:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s so true that it&#039;s super hard to talk about yourself without feeling like you are some braggy jerk. I think it was Nelson Mandela who said &quot;our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate but that we are powerful beyond measure&quot;

1. I&#039;m really smart. 
2. I&#039;ll be sure to let all my bloggy friends know they inspire me as I peruse the carnival posts today!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s so true that it&#8217;s super hard to talk about yourself without feeling like you are some braggy jerk. I think it was Nelson Mandela who said &#8220;our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate but that we are powerful beyond measure&#8221;</p>
<p>1. I&#8217;m really smart.<br />
2. I&#8217;ll be sure to let all my bloggy friends know they inspire me as I peruse the carnival posts today!</p>
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