List being updated here: please comment on that post
What started out as a semi-facetious comment in response to the #biggaybattle on Twitter (wherein I pointed out that, once again, we were discussing a choice between two cis gay white men, and asked where the poll for Lesbian/Bisexual Woman of the Decade was — and why I wasn’t on it) has turned into a more serious compilation of important, influential, or just plain notable lesbian and bisexual women of the past decade. For once, rather than just wondering why someone wasn’t doing it, I decided to do it myself. Because I can, that’s why.
Note: the term “lesbian and bisexual women” is problematic. There are many nonstraight/queer women who do not identify as either: for example, a woman might not identify as a lesbian because she is not only women-attracted, but neither identify as bisexual because it falsely presupposes only two sexes. My primary reason for using this term is simply because the men’s poll that inspired this used “Gay/Bisexual Man”. All non-straight identifying women, both cis and trans, are explicitly welcome as nominees.
The women nominated thus far:
On looking at this list, I have a few thoughts: 1) That’s a damn lot of women. I think I’ll narrow it down to, say, 10 for the final poll. 2) That’s a damn lot of white cis women. 3) When it’s 2am and you’re sick and tired and trying to find links which verify the sexuality of fiftybajillion women half of whom you’ve never heard of before, Wikipedia, for all its faults, is your friend.
So here’s what I’m thinking: I want more nominations. I especially want more nominations of lesbian/bisexual/queer women who are trans, who are from outside the US, and/or who are WOC/nonwhite. (And when I say “who are trans”, I mean “who are trans lesbians/bisexual/queer/nonstraight women”. Yay for straight trans women, but that’s not what this is about.) And, I want you, if so inclined, to tell us why you think someone should/shouldn’t be the Lesbian/Bisexual Woman of the Decade, and should/shouldn’t be in the final voting list.
And then I’m going to make a poll, and then you’re going to vote, and you’re going to tell all your friends to vote, and you’re going to tell all your favorite bloggers to blog about it and encourage their readers to vote, and you’re going to go lobby all the celebrities you know on Twitter to vote for your favorite nominee, and we’ll get #bigdykebattle or some such to trend, and we will take over the world have our turn at semi-randomly picking a probably-privileged community representative about whom we can make highly suggestive remarks.
Because we can, that’s why.
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ETA Further nominees from comments and Twitter:
And two paired nominations:
Ann Louise Gilligan and Katherine Zappone
There are several nominees I am not including because I cannot verify that they are explicitly and publicly out as queer/bisexual/lesbian women, or who came out at the end of the decade. I have no desire to inadvertently out anyone, nor to shove into the spotlight someone who has not willingly chosen to publicly align themselves with the queer community (regardless of their private sexuality). That said, many of these names are new to me, and while I’m doing my best to verify and to include only those women who are explicitly, openly out as queer, I am fully aware I may make errors, and beg for your assistance in correcting them.
Nominations will close at 11:59pm PST on Sunday January 10th 2010 (ooo, 2010!); poll will come up soon after.












Arwyn
In my bathroom hangs a plaque with a picture of a yin yang and the word BALANCE. I can never get it to hang straight. This probably says something deep and meaningful about my life.
Mila and Jayna L-Pavlin deserve inclusion on this list!
All I can think of is another white, cis, American bisexual woman: Amanda Palmer. I’ll have a think and see if I can do better …
I tend to be really uneasy about including drag queens as “women.” Generally they identify as men and sometimes not even particularly feminine men in daily life. Drag is gender as performance. Trans women are women; our lives are not performance or acting or (usually) breaking-the-binary stuff. Worse, drag queens tend to be purveyors of transphobic stereotypes – not just embodying them but acting them out – a drag performer at an HRC event only two years ago shouted out that “those self-denying trannies out there with three hairs on their head should accept that they’re just [expletive] men!” In 2008, this was seen as acceptable by a major gay rights organization, and by the performer.
Drag is performance.
Trans is reality.
Oops. I intended to respond to the NEXT response, not yours. Sorry!
Ongina from RuPaul’s drag race? http://www.ongina.com/ I am not sure if she lives as a woman. She uses male and female pronouns interchangeably on her site. I love her. (Caution, blog in link has music.)
Ann Louise Gilligan and Katherine Zappone, who are fighting to have their Canadian marriage, and attendant rights, recognised in Ireland. In fact, have spent most of the decade trying to have their partnership legally recognised (started in 2001 before they married)
Oh my God, how did I NOT know the prime minister of Iceland was a lesbian?
They truly are my people.
And yay Sandi Toksvig.
I’m a huge fan of Greta Christina. Read her bio here. Read one of her blog posts here (this one is about anti-bisexual discrimination). As far as her identity goes, she’s a white cis bisexual (currently one of the few in California with a legal same-sex marriage) fat-positive atheist.
Narelds Jacobs
She is pretty damned fabulous
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narelda_Jacobs
OMG! How did I not know that Narelda Jacobs was lesbian? Living under a rock = Me. Sigh. (Incidentally, back when I still watched TV news, I always thought she was pretty damned cool for a newsreader)
I didn’t know either Kareena. She *is* pretty fabulous and a genuine person too, from the brief conversation I’ve had with her.
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Chloe Noble and Jill Hardman for calling attention to the issue of queer youth homelessness: http://www.pridewalk2009.org/
Added, thank you.