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	<title>Comments on: Say WHAT now?!</title>
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	<description>Parenting, privilege, and rethinking the norm</description>
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		<title>By: Arwyn</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/02/say-what-now/#comment-168</link>
		<dc:creator>Arwyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 06:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve updated the post.  Thanks for pointing out the confusion.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve updated the post.  Thanks for pointing out the confusion.  :)</p>
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		<title>By: Arwyn</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/02/say-what-now/#comment-167</link>
		<dc:creator>Arwyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 06:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Drat, I see the link was dynamic -- but what it HAD pointed to was that &lt;i&gt;the story itself&lt;/i&gt; referred to her as &quot;lunch lady&quot; (was actually &lt;b&gt;titled&lt;/b&gt; something involving the phrase &quot;lunch ladies&quot;), which I found highly offensive and was attempting to point out with the link and my use of it in quotes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Drat, I see the link was dynamic &#8212; but what it HAD pointed to was that <i>the story itself</i> referred to her as &#8220;lunch lady&#8221; (was actually <b>titled</b> something involving the phrase &#8220;lunch ladies&#8221;), which I found highly offensive and was attempting to point out with the link and my use of it in quotes.</p>
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		<title>By: Megh</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/02/say-what-now/#comment-166</link>
		<dc:creator>Megh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 06:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm, would you consider referring to her as the lunch lady slightly stereotypical? Do you use the term lady cop or lady doctor? What does her gender have to do with her job title? Maybe she was just falling back on the generic &quot;moms&quot; like you fell back to using the generic &quot;lunch lady.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm, would you consider referring to her as the lunch lady slightly stereotypical? Do you use the term lady cop or lady doctor? What does her gender have to do with her job title? Maybe she was just falling back on the generic &#8220;moms&#8221; like you fell back to using the generic &#8220;lunch lady.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: TMae</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/02/say-what-now/#comment-165</link>
		<dc:creator>TMae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 03:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t even know how to respond to shit like that. I don&#039;t know why I continue to be shocked...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t even know how to respond to shit like that. I don&#8217;t know why I continue to be shocked&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Arwyn</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/02/say-what-now/#comment-163</link>
		<dc:creator>Arwyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 01:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;You couldn&#039;t sit in the same room as my father-in-law. You&#039;d have a stroke.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Likely, yeah.  ;)  Although I often am better at deep breathing and letting things go in person than I am about things I see/hear in more public venues (TV, radio, etc, especially &quot;news&quot;).  I can better forgive individuals, who usually are just spouting their nonsense to a few others, than I can entities who have a large audience, and as such are doing that much MORE to promote misogyny than are ignorant FILs.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I hate that &quot;less misogynistic&quot; = luckier in mate selection, although I will concede its truth.  Perhaps not practical, but I wish we&#039;d all hold standards of &quot;actively feminist&quot; = bare minimum; perhaps then we&#039;d see real change.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;On my less optimistic days I add &quot;...or the human race would die out&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>You couldn&#8217;t sit in the same room as my father-in-law. You&#8217;d have a stroke.</i></p>
<p>Likely, yeah.  ;)  Although I often am better at deep breathing and letting things go in person than I am about things I see/hear in more public venues (TV, radio, etc, especially &#8220;news&#8221;).  I can better forgive individuals, who usually are just spouting their nonsense to a few others, than I can entities who have a large audience, and as such are doing that much MORE to promote misogyny than are ignorant FILs.</p>
<p>I hate that &#8220;less misogynistic&#8221; = luckier in mate selection, although I will concede its truth.  Perhaps not practical, but I wish we&#8217;d all hold standards of &#8220;actively feminist&#8221; = bare minimum; perhaps then we&#8217;d see real change.</p>
<p>On my less optimistic days I add &#8220;&#8230;or the human race would die out&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
		<link>http://www.raisingmyboychick.com/2009/02/say-what-now/#comment-160</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2009 05:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You couldn&#039;t sit in the same room as my father-in-law. You&#039;d have a stroke. Actually, I just chalk it up to him not knowing better and having a wife who enjoyed being responsible for the home while he worked outside of it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;However, it&#039;d be easier to live with his son if things had been different... And judging from my peers, I&#039;m one of the lucky ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You couldn&#8217;t sit in the same room as my father-in-law. You&#8217;d have a stroke. Actually, I just chalk it up to him not knowing better and having a wife who enjoyed being responsible for the home while he worked outside of it.</p>
<p>However, it&#8217;d be easier to live with his son if things had been different&#8230; And judging from my peers, I&#8217;m one of the lucky ones.</p>
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